Which emulator you use depends on which OS you use. If you are on Windows 2000/XP, then go for Dega, currently the most user friendly Windows emulator for the SMS, programmed by Dave, original author of DTMNT, DGen, Final Burn, and general Sega freak.
But MEKA is truly outstanding, and award winner for most beautiful GUI in an emulator. The emulator is free, but if you register (either with an original SMS cartridge or a small donation), you get new releases in advance of the general public. (Yes, I'm a registered user).
You can also find support in MESS, GenS, and Kega.
